Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts

Friday, January 18, 2013

10 Ultimate Ways to Manifest Happiness, Health and Well-Being in the New Year

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Happiness, health and well-being are the "Ultimate Three Aspects of Life" that you need to manifest so that you can experience an awesome life, reality and world.
I would like to share with you 10 WAYS, 10 AFFIRMATIONS and 10 MIND POWER QIGONG breathing exercises that I have done and continue to do and that you can use to set yourself on your road to happiness, health and well-being.

1. Make a grateful list                                2. Define what happiness means to you
3. Make meaningful goals                          4. De-clutter
5. Laugh out loud                                      6. Mind power qigong
7. Meditate                                               8. Let more fresh air in
9. Spend some daytime outside                 10. Spend some nighttime outside

 These are 10 excellent ways to begin your journey in the new year but can also serve as your guiding principles to create and manifest happiness, health and well-being on a daily basis throughout the year and beyond.

Happiness has been defined as a long-lasting and enduring enjoyment of life. It is simply really being in love with living. Happiness may be defined differently for you than for others. To me it is a state of being, reward for achieving good character and the pursuit of rational personal values. From my perspective some examples of important values are the positive and valued treatment of others, a creative and productive career, loving family relationships, successful friendships, positive social interactions and having fun things to do.

Health is of course the state of being where you are free from illness and injury. Health depends upon your positive success in each of your three planes of existence - the physical, the mental and the spiritual.

Well-being in popular usage usually relates to health. But, philosophically well-being is a much broader term that amounts to your notion of how well your life is going. The concept of well-being also includes what is "actually," truly, good for you and not what you may think is good for you. This obviously can vary greatly from person to person.

1. Make a grateful list

Get a pad of paper and a pencil and sit down in a quiet comfortable place. Focus on all the great things that you have and experience in your life that enhance your feelings of joy. Write these on your grateful list and place the list in a convenient location where you can read it each morning and new items to it at the end of the day.

Affirmation 1 - "gratitude is definitely the best way to attract more good things into my life."

Qigong Exercise 1 - Take a few abdominal breaths and relax. INHALE, imagine that you are standing outside on a beautiful night with a dark clear sky, stars shining bright everywhere and say to yourself, "gratitude is definitely the best way..." EXHALE, imagine that thousands of fine silvery threads emanate from your solar plexus and each connects to a star in the universe and say to yourself, "...to attract more good things into my life." REPEAT this for several minutes feeling your connection to the universe, the world and your reality.

2. Define what happiness means to you

Happiness is an attitude, not a physical state. It is a state of being. You need to make the decision to be happy and then go out and create the circumstances and find what makes you happy.

Affirmation 2 - "every atom of my being now resonates with joy and happiness."

Qigong Exercise 2 - Take a few abdominal breaths and relax. INHALE, imagine that warmth and happiness shines from you like the sun's golden rays and it lights up everything around you with positive happy golden energy and say to yourself, "every atom of my being now resonates..." EXHALE, imagine that everything that you lit up now reflects this warmth and happiness back to you and say to yourself, "...with joy and happiness." REPEAT this for several minutes and with each breath you feel warm and happy inside.

3. Make meaningful goals

You need a sense of purpose to thrive. It has been shown that people with dreams and aspirations are happier than those without. There are many areas of your life where you can create goals. Ask yourself, "What is my purpose in life?" "What do I really want to do in my life?" "What kind of life do I want to create for myself?" These questions will help you define yourself and your goals.

Affirmation 3 - "I focus completely on what I am doing and I am happy and grateful that my goal has been achieved."

Qigong Exercise 3 - Take a few abdominal breaths and relax. INHALE, imagine your goal in your mind's eye, see yourself performing the steps to achieve your goal and say to yourself, "I focus completely on what I am doing..." EXHALE, imagine that you have achieved your goal, create a really clear picture of your success and say to yourself, "...and I am happy and grateful that my goal has been achieved." Repeat this for several minutes and with each breath sense and feel the joy that completing your goal brings to you.

4. De-clutter

This is a really super concept and if you want a clear mind you need to de-clutter everything about your life. Specifically, and you may not even realize that this is affecting you, but a clean home is a clean mind and you really will feel better in an orderly environment.

Affirmation 4 - "I will not allow the space in my mind to be cluttered by things that add no value to my life."

Qigong Exercise 4 - Take a few abdominal breaths and relax. INHALE, imagine the cluttered areas of your home perhaps your cupboards, closets, bookcases, bathroom, kid's room and say to yourself, "I will not allow the space in my mind to be cluttered..." EXHALE, imagine what your home would look like all weeded out, clean and organized and say to yourself, "...and I have removed the things that do not add value to my life." Repeat this for several minutes and in the process sense how nice, how fresh your new organized life feels.

5. Laugh out loud

It has been shown through scientific research that laughing releases endorphins and lowers the levels of stress hormones that are circulating in your blood and body. Laughing is good for the soul and we all know how contagious it can be when in the company of friends and relatives.

Affirmation 5 - "I am lightening up, laughing more, playing more, and fully embracing all that's joyful in life.'

Qigong Exercise 5 - Take a few abdominal breaths and relax. INHALE, imagine yourself laughing, EXHALE and feel what it is like to be laughing and put a smile on your face. REPEAT this 6 times. Next place your right hand over your heart and gently place your left hand on top of it. INHALE as you press gently inward with both hands toward your heart, EXHALE as you softly vocalize, "haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, ha, ha,ha,ha, haaaaaa" and focus on what you feel under your right hand, feel the stress leaving your body, feeling great.

6. Mind power and qigong

Through the use of mind power coupled with qigong you can create the Balance, Abundance and Flow that is necessary for stress-free living. You can manifest a higher, more positive state of being. Learning to control your breathing through qigong practice helps you manifest positive responses to the stresses, fears and anxieties that crop up during your day. Mindful breathing brings peace and contentment.

Affirmation 6 - "I use my breath and mind to increase my awareness of self."

Qigong Exercise 6 - Take a few abdominal breaths and relax. INHALE for a count 1-2-3-4, PAUSE your breath for a count of 1-2, EXHALE for a count of 1-2-3-4, PAUSE your breath for a count of 1-2. Repeat this 6 times. Now, INHALE for a count of 1-2-3-4 while saying to yourself, "I use my breath and mind..."

PAUSE for a count of 1-2, EXHALE for a count of 1-2-3-4 while saying to yourself, "...to increase my awareness of self...," PAUSE for a count of 1-2. REPEAT this 6 times. It is here that you can learn to control your body, mind and spirit.

7. Meditate

Through tons of scientific research, medical studies and according to the Dali Lama meditation not only decreases stress, but also triggers a neurological response that makes you happy.

Affirmation 7 - "focus and clearing my mind produces a healing stillness within me."

Qigong Exercise 7 - Take a few abdominal breaths and relax. Focus your eyes on the tip of your nose, INHALE slowly and feel the air as it flows past your nostrils, EXHALE slowly and again feel the air as it flows past your nostrils. REPEAT this 9 times making sure to feel the air as it brushes past your nostrils.

INHALE, feel the air and say to yourself, "focus and clearing my mind..." EXHALE, feel the air and say to yourself, "...produces a healing stillness within me." REPEAT this 9 times. When finished take a moment and reflect on how you are now feeling.

8. Let more fresh air inside

Very often the air inside your place of residence gets stuffy and stagnant. Open a window and let some fresh air in. Fresh air is invigorating and increases the levels of serotonin in your brain. Serotonin is a chemical that helps maintain a "happy feeling," and seems to help keep your mood under control by helping with sleep, calming anxiety, and relieving depression.

Affirmation 8 - "I am grateful for fresh air that comes through my window."

Qigong Exercise 8 - Sit near your open window where there is fresh air (do not sit directly in the draft and if it is chilly make sure you bundle up warmly), INHALE, expand your mind to feel and smell the fresh air and say to yourself, "I am grateful for the fresh air..." EXHALE and say to yourself, "...that comes through my window." REPEAT this for 5-10 minutes. Know that the fresh air is good for your health and mental well-being.

9. Spend some daytime outside

The outside, relative to the inside, is considered to be yang. Daytime is yang and therefore energizing. There is nothing like the bright outdoors, the air, the trees, nature and especially the daylight. Take a walk. Just taking a quick walk, even just down the street and back, can clear your mind and raise your mood.

Affirmation 9 - "Taking a walk in the daylight feels great. It gives me energy and lifts my mood.

Qigong Exercise 9 - Take a few abdominal breaths and relax. As you are walking INHALE to a count of your footsteps 1-2-3-4, then EXHALE to the count of your footsteps 1-2-3-4. REPEAT for several cycles until you have this pattern going nicely (adjust your breath or your walking speed if necessary). INHALE 1-2-3-4 while you say to yourself, "Taking a walk in the daylight feels great..." EXHALE 1-2-3-4- while you say to yourself, "...It gives me energy and lifts my mood." Make sure you smile at the end of each breath and repeat this for your entire walk.

10. Spend some nighttime outside

Nighttime is an awesome time to be outdoors. Compared to daytime it is Yin and thus it can have an immense calming and peaceful effect on your mind and spirit. You might try going stargazing. By looking out at the stars you can experience and really feel the limitless abundance of the Universe. Go out and find a spot relatively free of unnatural light and marvel at the beauty of the night sky and the wonders of the Universe.

Affirmation 10 - "I am being pulled by the infinite field of possibilities, to my true self and the life of my dreams."

Qigong Exercise 10 - Find a nice place outdoors at night where you can look at the sky with little or no extraneous light. Place your right hand on your abdomen so that your thumb covers your navel, then gently place your left hand on top of it. Breath normally, INHALE slowly, EXHALE slowly, as you imagine yourself surrounded by a blanket of universal energy. REPEAT this for 2 to 5 minutes. INHALE and say to yourself, "I am being pulled by the infinite field of possibilities..." EXHALE and say to your self, "...to my true self and the life of my dreams." REPEAT this for as long as you like. Enjoy the nighttime knowing that its peaceful Yin energy is soothing your body mind and spirit.

The above 10 ways are really awesome, inexpensive and in fact FREE ways to create and manifest happiness, health and well-being in your life. But, I think that an 11th and very beneficial way to manifest happiness, health and well-being is to share with others. To share with your family and friends by telling them, showing them and experiencing with them what makes you happy. Let them know the things that you are doing. Everyone can learn from each other so share your happiness, your health and your well-being with everyone that you meet. Together we can all move the universe and the world to a higher level of consciousness. Remember - It's Your health! Create It Now!

Kevin Hufford is a respected qigong master and teaches classes, seminars and instructor certification in upstate New York, the USA and Internationally. He is the founder of a new and revolutionary system called Mind Power Qigong. For more information and to CLAIM YOUR COPY of "It's Your Health, Create It NOW!" please visit - http://mindpowerqigong.com
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Thursday, January 10, 2013

Will Weight Loss Bring Happiness?

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Do you think losing weight will bring you happiness?
I'm guessing you do, as pretty much every one of my clients says they want to lose weight:-
"Because it will make me happy"
Well, I've got news for you. It won't.

Why am I telling you this? Because you will find out for yourself soon enough and I want to manage your expectations. I don't want you to be disappointed and give up on your weight loss programme, because losing weight isn't delivering everything that you expected it to.
Now, don't get me wrong. Losing weight will undoubtedly make you happier than you are right now.

It will:
  • Give you greater confidence
  • Boost your self-esteem
  • Make you feel better about yourself
  • Improve your quality of life
  • Give you more energy........
Loads and loads of really positive benefits, but it won't make you happy.

You see, losing weight is not the key to eternal happiness.

The fact is that nothing external makes you happy. Happiness comes from within.
The wonderful news, however, is that happiness is available to us at any time. It is like a spring inside our body; there is an eternal source of happiness we can tap into whenever we want.

Don't believe me?
Think about the way you feel when you listen to a really uplifting piece of music. Think about the way you feel when you see something really beautiful. Think about how you felt the last time you laughed until you cried. Instant, unadulterated happiness.

The only thing stopping us from being happy all the time are our thoughts.

Our thoughts create our reality - our personal experiences - in any given moment.

The way we respond to a given situation or a certain person or the way we perceive things can make us feel positive or negative, happy or sad, optimistic or pessimistic.

Unfortunately we very often opt for the latter, because we have programmed ourselves to do so.

Happiness comes from being in the moment - not having angry or resentful thoughts about the past; not worrying unnecessarily about the future.

It comes from being in the now - living, fully experiencing and enjoying this very moment that you are in RIGHT NOW.

It comes when your mind is still, when you're fully present, when you're totally engaged in a project or a hobby or with a person - when time flies and you're 'in flow.'

It comes from knowing that you are more than you think you are; that you are a wonderfully unique human being with so much to offer the world.

It comes from knowing that you are OK and that you'll be OK no matter what:-
"I am me - and I am OK"
as the wonderful piece of writing from Virgina Satir goes.

It comes from knowing that you have all the internal resources you need to deal with any situation and, last but not least, it comes from living your life with passion and purpose.

So, when a client comes to me to lose weight, I help them lose weight - I'm a weight loss coach after all - and it is a very important goal.

But my ultimate goal is your ultimate goal - to help you find happiness, peace and inner security - and when you do, that's when I know that our paths crossing have been a true blessing.

Theresa Coligan created http://thinkingthin.co.uk/ to help people solve one of the biggest and most challenging issues in their lives - how to lose weight and keep it off. Thinking Thin focusses on the missing link in weight loss - mindset change. Change your mindset and you easily change your behaviour; change your behaviour and you easily lose weight.

If you want to lose weight easily and enjoyably, sign up for our FREE weekly newsletter at http://thinkingthin.co.uk/register.php and get our e-book 'Insider Secrets To Simple, Sustainable Weight Loss' absolutely FREE as well.
(C) Copyright - Theresa Coligan. All worldwide rights reserved.
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Saturday, January 5, 2013

Happiness, Play And Be Happy

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Happiness has been described as an illusion, a warm bath, a bowl of cherries, and many other things by many people throughout time. It is not an abstract concept but there are many descriptions which make the feeling of happiness an individual experience. Since the concepts of happiness are reliant upon the mindsets and emotional states of each person who experiences them, there is a "fuzzy logic" kind of feel to it. Often people attempt to describe their state of mind and body as being directly related to an experience. People say that they are happy for many reasons, and for the most part will attribute those reasons as mirrored expressions of their physical and the emotional state which they experience as a result.

 In an attempt to nail down the truth about what "being truly happy" means, it is essential to examine the basic needs that have to be met for people to feel that they have reached this euphoric state of mind. The basic needs of all human beings are water, food, shelter, companionship, and health. If any of these are missing it becomes difficult to maintain a happy disposition. Considering that most of these conditions are met, generally people in the modern world can achieve "happiness" on a regular basis. In considering the state of childhood and infancy, babies and small children according to several studies, smile 62 percent more than their adult counterparts.

The rationale as to this deficiency in adult levels of happiness can only mean that at some point people become less happy as they get older. If all of the basic needs are still being met from child to adulthood, one must assume either "something has been taken away" or "something else has been added". In either case in order to change these levels of happiness, something must have "changed" to subsequently reduce smiling capacity by 62 percent. If something got changed, then in theory it can be changed back again!

In people's adult lives, things do change as they get older. Increases in responsibilities and requirements to earn an income, greatly detracts from the leisure of "playtime" that most people experienced as children. The action of aging itself has become a condition that for many reasons adds to a persons unhappiness. The evolution from child to adult and then to parent is a journey of increasing responsibilities and diminishing play time, compounded with a sense of becoming older and less likely to participate in play of any sort. People are living longer but attitudes towards well-being as the population ages are not promoted equally.

 There are preconceptions regarding "older people who play", but does it have to be this way? Could this increase in responsibilities and accompanying stresses be the reason for the decrease in levels of laughter and happiness? Most likely this is a key reason why most people become "less happy" as they age. They have forgotten how to play. It would seem that the stresses and lack of playtime greatly detracts from a person's ability "to deal with the stresses" they are accumulating as they grow up. As children we could "laugh and forget" about the injustices and mishaps encountered on a daily basis. As adults we don't shed the "feelings of unhappiness" quite so easily.

The solution isn't necessarily to merely take on fewer responsibilities; rather it makes more sense to increase our playtime and "happy state of mind". As small children, the imagination makes up a huge part of our psychological "well-being". The ability to dream up ideas and creatively play with the idea of things used to make our existence more meaningful. As adults we are told often "to grow up and stop behaving like children", perhaps the opposite is what we should be telling each other. While it's true we must take on many more responsibilities, we can still keep some of the key attributes we had as children. Of these, the values of friendship and "fair play", and how to make others laugh are important functions in the transition from our young lives to our maturity.

If somehow people could merge the games and imagination used in their youth with the daily requirements of adulthood, perhaps their lives would be happier. Since there are times when play is not recommended, by finding things "we like to do", people can establish hobbies and pastimes that enrich their lives at the end of the work day. Simple things like drawing and pottery or a martial arts class can mean the difference between being able to shed the stresses of the day and "carrying them over" to the next day. Parents can join in more of the games that their children are playing, even if it does take them a while to catch on to the rules! The bonds that this will help to form and the resulting energies exchanged by getting down on their level, will go a long way to promoting a much better perspective on life.

As time passes and the memories of childhood fade, so too does our memory of what it felt like to "laugh out loud" in the very realest sense of the now much over used text abbreviation. Instead of allowing our lives to become chaotic pits of desperate and relentless stresses, we must continue to play our games and laugh with our friends. Barring the loss of the essential basic needs of survival, we must strive to use our imaginations and come up with new ways to truly "enjoy our lives". By pursuing happiness we are extending our journey here, not only for ourselves, but for all who are within earshot of our infectious laughter. Remember the old Chinese proverb, "where there is laughter, happiness likes to be!"

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Thursday, January 3, 2013

Healthy Diets and Weight Loss Will Increase Your Happiness

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At the age of 26 my nice was on her way to obesity. One problem caused many others, like dissatisfaction with herself, looks of disgust by others and the risk of getting diabetes. The last one made her re-evaluate her life as she was warned that it would make things more difficult. She started an individual program of losing weight under the guidance of specialists. So, 39 pounds off is the result of two years of hard work.

Firstly, she had to switch to a healthy diet which meant that she needed to cut down on sugars and salty food as it blocks the water in the body, something that is really bad if you are at the risk of diabetes. She had to start also drinking more water, which is necessary because
it speeds up the metabolism and helps to burn fat.

Then she started to exercise regularly; it was not an easy thing for her to do. Sometimes it was simply walking instead of driving the car. And of course she set a certain time for eating, with no snacks in between.

So, a healthy diet and exercising helped her body to regulate its processes with the result that her blood sugar went down. She could avoid the danger of getting diabetes. And it must be said that a healthy diet combined with exercises has also improved her health condition in general. But the most important thing is that it has changed her personality and gave her back my self-respect.

Talking to people who struggle with being overweight has taught me that often these people have low self esteem and even dislike themselves. They wish to find the internal strength to change their situation, but often do not succeed. Their internal state of unhappiness affects their relationships with their family and friend, and thus, these people's unhappiness increases even more due to the difficult relationships.

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Good luck and happy reading.

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Monday, December 31, 2012

Will Weight Loss Bring Happiness?

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Do you think losing weight will bring you happiness?
I'm guessing you do, as pretty much every one of my clients says they want to lose weight:-
"Because it will make me happy"
Well, I've got news for you. It won't.
Why am I telling you this? Because you will find out for yourself soon enough and I want to manage your expectations. I don't want you to be disappointed and give up on your weight loss programme, because losing weight isn't delivering everything that you expected it to.


Now, don't get me wrong. Losing weight will undoubtedly make you happier than you are right now.
It will:
  • Give you greater confidence
  • Boost your self-esteem
  • Make you feel better about yourself
  • Improve your quality of life
  • Give you more energy........
Loads and loads of really positive benefits, but it won't make you happy.
You see, losing weight is not the key to eternal happiness.

The fact is that nothing external makes you happy. Happiness comes from within.
The wonderful news, however, is that happiness is available to us at any time. It is like a spring inside our body; there is an eternal source of happiness we can tap into whenever we want.
Don't believe me?

Think about the way you feel when you listen to a really uplifting piece of music. Think about the way you feel when you see something really beautiful. Think about how you felt the last time you laughed until you cried. Instant, unadulterated happiness.

The only thing stopping us from being happy all the time are our thoughts.
Our thoughts create our reality - our personal experiences - in any given moment.

The way we respond to a given situation or a certain person or the way we perceive things can make us feel positive or negative, happy or sad, optimistic or pessimistic.

Unfortunately we very often opt for the latter, because we have programmed ourselves to do so.
Happiness comes from being in the moment - not having angry or resentful thoughts about the past; not worrying unnecessarily about the future.

It comes from being in the now - living, fully experiencing and enjoying this very moment that you are in RIGHT NOW.

It comes when your mind is still, when you're fully present, when you're totally engaged in a project or a hobby or with a person - when time flies and you're 'in flow.'

It comes from knowing that you are more than you think you are; that you are a wonderfully unique human being with so much to offer the world.

It comes from knowing that you are OK and that you'll be OK no matter what:-
"I am me - and I am OK"
as the wonderful piece of writing from Virgina Satir goes.

It comes from knowing that you have all the internal resources you need to deal with any situation and, last but not least, it comes from living your life with passion and purpose.

So, when a client comes to me to lose weight, I help them lose weight - I'm a weight loss coach after all - and it is a very important goal.

But my ultimate goal is your ultimate goal - to help you find happiness, peace and inner security - and when you do, that's when I know that our paths crossing have been a true blessing.

Theresa Coligan created http://thinkingthin.co.uk/ to help people solve one of the biggest and most challenging issues in their lives - how to lose weight and keep it off. Thinking Thin focusses on the missing link in weight loss - mindset change. Change your mindset and you easily change your behaviour; change your behaviour and you easily lose weight.

If you want to lose weight easily and enjoyably, sign up for our FREE weekly newsletter at http://thinkingthin.co.uk/register.php and get our e-book 'Insider Secrets To Simple, Sustainable Weight Loss' absolutely FREE as well.

(C) Copyright - Theresa Coligan. All worldwide rights reserved.
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